AMERICAN VALUES AND ASSUMPTIONS
AMERICAN VALUES AND ASSUMPTIONS
- Gary
Althen
In this chapter excerpt, Althen focuses
on nine central values and assumptions shared by the majority of people living
in the United States. He contrasts these cultural patterns with those of other
nations and describes the types of problems and misunderstandings that can
occur when people from different cultures, with diverse beliefs and
perceptions, interact.
First, he says what a culture is. People
belonging to one culture have the same values and assumptions. They agree with
each other about what is right and wrong what is desirable and what is
undesirable. A culture is a collection of values and assumptions which help people how to react to the world. The first of the nine values is
individualism.
Individualism
From a very early age, Americans have
been taught to consider themselves as separate individuals responsible for luck
and their situations in life. They have not been taught to think of themselves as
part of the group.
The writer heard a mother asking her
three-year-old boy not to buy Orange Julius right then but to buy something
else or drink it later when he would have enough money to buy it. People
from other cultures cannot believe that such a young boy can have his own money.
Actually, the mother is teaching the boy how to be careful in spending money
because he has to be ready to make choices and face the results without his
mother’s help later in the future. American children are raised not to serve their
family, their country, or their God, but to follow their aims and occupations
in life according to their interests. After graduation, if it is economically
possible, young Americans are expected to live independently. Otherwise, they
are considered immature. As they consider themselves free, they also consider
that people, after living some time in the USA, will be free to decide for themselves to do what they like.
Americans want complete individual
freedom. But other people consider Americans selfish. To understand Americans,
one should understand American ideals. They always want to do something unique
to stand out in the society. They want to come out of favorable conditions by
their own hard work. They do not respect their parents like the children in the
traditional society. They live independently after they become twenty-two. They
want to do their best for themselves.
Competition
Americans show competitive feelings in
every field in games, in school, in jobs, and in social gatherings. When they try to
prove themselves superior to others, they are really alone.
Privacy
Americans value privacy equally well. They
need some time to pass alone to recover their spent energy. They do
not like people who always want the company of others. Such people are weak and
dependent on them. Americans do not want others to break their privacy in their
offices and homes.
Equality
Americans believe that everyone is equal
and therefore everyone’s opinion is equally valid and worthy. They don’t like
to be respected as the persons who can do no wrong. Americans do not like be
respected very highly. Everyone can reach the higher post and everyone is properly
respected.
Informality
Americans are quite informal when they
behave with foreigners. American waiters do not respect foreigner customers
highly. So the customers feel insulted. Americans use informal language,
informal dress, and informal body positions in public places. The president of a
highly respected college runs in the college building compound wearing shorts
and old T-shirts like an ordinary person. Even the American president is shown
wearing a jogging dress to show that he is just like an ordinary American.
The Future, Change, And Progress
Americans are not worried about the
past. But they value the future because they think that it can be influenced or
controlled. They believe that change is better, and new things are better than
old things. Every American believes that s/he can change the present situation
for a better future. American belief in progress and a better future does not
agree with the fatalistic attitude, that is found in Asia, Latin America, and Arab
countries. Fatalistic people believe that the future is in a superior power’s hands
and they can do nothing about it. Americans don’t like those who accept
everything without fighting against it.
Time
Americans value time like money. They use
time wisely to make their future better. They make a plan and follow it making
a fixed timetable. They do not like to waste other people’s time, either. American
attitude to time is different from that of non-Europeans, who are not serious
enough to use time wisely. It is said that Americans are so tied to their
routine life that they cannot enjoy life as human beings, and they are like
machines. Americans value efficiency to complete the task quickly by using
minimum resources. That’s why e-mail is popular among them. Businesspeople and
students use it frequently. Popular magazines publish suggestions to do
numerous everyday tasks efficiently. The Internet provides them any kind of information immediately. Americans want responses of any kind of
communication immediately.
Achievement, Action, Work, And Materialism
Americans praise those persons who
complete the task successfully once they have started. They believe in the
person who works efficiently to achieve a high standard. They like to spend
their time doing something or making plans for the future. They don’t like
to pass their time by talking with other people. Americans are negatively
evaluated because they are very busy and do not spend their time on
entertainment.
Americans are identified by the work
they do, not by family backgrounds, or educational attainments. Americans are
encouraged to spend freely because of credit cards. They have been taught to
work hard and to acquire more things by their hard work. They do what their
culture has taught them.
Directions And Assertiveness
Americans express their ideas directly. They
don’t like to hide anything. They want to settle any kind of disagreement
directly by involving the concerned person. They think it cowardly if some
other person is asked to settle it. Americans are assertive, that is, they
express opinions or desires strongly and with confidence so that people take
notice. They take assertiveness- training classes if they cannot express their
ideas directly. Unlike Asians, Americans are not taught to hide their feelings.
They react openly, making many Asians uneasy. But Latin Americans and Arabs
express their feelings more openly than Americans.
However, there are many situations in
which Americans are less open. They do not want to talk about extremely personal
matters. They do not like to offend the person who has requested them. They fear
that unfamiliar and familiar people may misunderstand them. Their openness has
certain limitations. If they gain nothing by meeting with persons, they do not
like to face such persons. Honesty is more important for them. So their faces
do not hide their feelings in the mind, unlike Scandinavians or Japanese. Iranians
behave more openly with Americans.
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